Tomorrow we get her hearing aids and she should be able to hear something. I am very excited for her, and me. Does this mean that perhaps I don't have to go upstairs any time I need her, or go running after her to say something or stop her from making the wrong choices?? Oooh, that would be nice wouldn't it?
She picked the color blue for her hearing aides so this should be a nice contrast against her black hair.
Sometimes, I admit, she drives me slightly crazy. Like getting ready for bed at night she brushes her teeth then pops an Easter candy in her mouth. Then I discovered this brown stain on her bottom sheet. I asked "What's this?": She points to all the empty candy wrappers and boxes from Easter. She ate massive amounts of candy within 3 days of the Ester Bunny coming. I never thought to tell her that she needed to ask me before she ate all of it. She still comes down every morning morning in p.j.’s. I tell her “change”, and she comes down wearing what she had on the day before. It’s a process...
I tried to arrange her
clothes in categories so she could understand how to put things together. It took me over an hour the first
time. About a week later I go to
get a shirt from the closet and everything is in a mish mash. I search her drawers, and find a skirt,
a dress, and all sorts of unrelated clothes in various places. Her closet no longer has rhyme or
reason to it. A sweatshirt is in
the pants area, a shirt was with the dresses, half the pants had been taken off
the hanger and piled on a shelf, I didn’t know where to find anything. So, I
start again and explain to her each section and why it is organized this way
and how it can help her. She
nodded the whole time, but she nodded the last time as well. I’ll go and check in another week or
so.
I did my pro-active Mom
thing again today. I got an
appointment with the Superintendent of Schools for Monday. I will walk in with an agenda to deal
with several important issues, 4 to be exact. I do expect to have a successful outcome. I also sent a strongly worded, but
nice, email to my daughter’s teacher who is supposed to be teaching her
English, but doesn’t because she is a reading teacher and just has her read. No
vocabulary of consequence, grammar, punctuation, sentence structure, etc. I copied, the Principal, the Guidance
Counselor and the Director of Special Services with this email. I need to create a paper trail of my
requests and communications to bolster my case, which I will present to the
Superintendent. You see it is all
connected.
Time to bolster me with some sleep to tackle a very busy weekend.
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